The Day He Said Goodbye.

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Dear Miss Beauitch,

He finally said goodbye. After months of fighting to make it all work out, he gave up. Was it me? Was it him? Was it the distance? Maybe it was the love? Has he found someone new? He said we're at our worst and what really knocks me out is when he said "this is goodbye for me".

Was that goodbye meant forever? Are goodbyes really for forever? What if he found someone new? I don't believe I can take it.I told him he may find someone to love and he will love her more than he loved me, if he really did, but he will never find someone that will love him much more than I did.

I still dream of that day where I can finally be with him, even just as friends. It's hard to keep on fighting when the one you're fighting for has already given up. I would give everything for us to workout, I will hold his hand as tight as it is just to not let him slip away. But he let go of my hand before I could hold it tighter.

I feel like a broken glass. I know I will be whole again in the future. But the cracks will always remind me of the day he said goodbye.

Hurting,

Frosty's Love

How Do You Know That You've Found The One?

To be honest, I don't know either. Seriously. Even after 40 years of being happily married, some people still go in the divorce lane. I have read somewhere that we should stop looking for the right one, instead we should focus on being the right one :) it makes sense though coz we're too busy looking for the one that we forget to love ourselves and be the right one instead. It's the same as be the girl your boyfriend can't live without.

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I know, majority of us girls have lots of issues in life. We're insecure of almost everything! Beauty, wealth, body and everything else. Guess what, somewhere and some time in our lives, there will always be that man, or men, who will love what you hate about yourself. Big butt, freckled face, big boobs, big tummy, big nose, fat legs, and all other things you're insecure about. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder :)

But really, beauty is not the reason why someone will you. Except ofcourse for those whose basis for love is how attractive their partner should be. This is dangerous because all of us will age, we get old. If your type of love is like this, you will never end up with just one partner. You will constantly look for attractive people. Beauty fades, but personality lasts :) 

How Do I Stop Myself From Loving Someone Too Much?

So how do you stop yourself from loving someone too much? Love yourself even more. Loving someone too much and if that someone doesn't love you the way you wanted to be loved, we often mistaken them from not really loving us. Relationships always have that one partner who loves their partner much more than you can imagine ( I know because I'm like that lol).

If you're too busy thinking how you can stop loving someone when that someone doesn't even think of leaving you or the likes, stop worrying and enjoy the relationship. The problem about being human is we tend to worry too much. We go on all negative and our brain creates these worst scenes and bam, you're starting a fight with you girlfriend or boyfriend. If only people would stop worrying and start enjoying then life would be much easier and happier!

I was always the jealous type! Take note of "WAS" because I am no longer the jealous, possessive and hands-on girlfriend that I was when I was younger. All day texting of where are you's or what are you doing or who's with you are no longer in the picture. Now it's okay that I cannot talk with my partner for a day but we just make sure to leave a message for each other letting each other know where we are and what are we doing and why we cannot go online or send messages.

So for all the jealous types out there, breathe, relax and enjoy!

The Ugly Truth: Lust vs Love

I titled this post the ugly truth because I know the truth can be ugly and yes, sometimes, if not always, it hurts like hell. It's given already that because of today's norms and trends, it is harder to find love because lust is everywhere. Sex comes before relationships, babies come before marriage and oftentimes people think about lust as the basis for compatibility in finding a partner. Now I have to disagree with this. This is one of the reasons why a lot of people are left broken hearted and depressed.

We need to change the way we're thinking and setting our standards in having a relationship. Yeah sex is good, it might be very good that you think you're in love with that person but really, at the end of the day, when you are tired or you just want to enjoy a good company, do you still find yourself in love with that person or the sparks just stay in the bed?

Personally, I would choose a partner that I can talk with, I can enjoy with because really,not all people are as physically active or lustful in nature. I know a lot of people will disagree with this but that's the truth ya'll, sex is good while it lasts. 

Love is when you take away the feeling, take away the lust, take away the good things and if you still fight and stay with that person, don't ever let them go. Problems will always be there, but it will all be worth it if it's love :)

When Your Man Ignores You, What Would You Do?

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I have this feeling he's been ignoring me. I know. I can feel it. I hate having to feel this way but I cannot continue on pushing myself to him. It's tiring to always initiate the conversation, to always find things to talk about just so the conversation won't go stale. I mean, I know you're going through something but is it hard to just tell me to back the hell off rather than ignoring me. Also, next time you have a problem tell me so I will not think you're ignoring me again. Hard thing about you guys is the fact that you shut us out when you're going through something. You always feel that you don't need us but there's really nothing wrong in admitting you need help. But for now, I'm seriously pissed of with one of the male species. Yes, you!

I hate you, but I love you!

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You're a great guy, today.

Yes, you change everyday and it's confusing the hell out of me. 

Today you're sweet. The next day you're cold as ice. It goes on for days and then you'll turn sweet again.

What the hell is wrong with you? If you're unsure of your feelings then tell me, don't include me in your confusing world. Well I guess it's too late for that because I'm caught in it already.

I hate you for doing this to me but I love you because you're the only one who knows me.

Sucks!

Waiting and waiting and waiting. Seriously?

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Rant:

I just hate it when a guy lets you wait for hours and then sweet talks you after hours of no-message. I mean, seriously man, can you just be a little considerate and be man enough to tell it staright to my face,"bitch I'm going out so I won't message you, don't expect any message soon". Done. I mean it's that easy right? Right?

Miss Beauitch says:

I feel you girl! But if a man tells you that, I'm pretty sure it would start off some serious fight. You would bring up things like he would go see other girl or things like that. And we know how men avoid arguing with their girl as much as possible. Why? Because we girls are the bomb. One word and we blow!