The Day He Said Goodbye.

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Dear Miss Beauitch,

He finally said goodbye. After months of fighting to make it all work out, he gave up. Was it me? Was it him? Was it the distance? Maybe it was the love? Has he found someone new? He said we're at our worst and what really knocks me out is when he said "this is goodbye for me".

Was that goodbye meant forever? Are goodbyes really for forever? What if he found someone new? I don't believe I can take it.I told him he may find someone to love and he will love her more than he loved me, if he really did, but he will never find someone that will love him much more than I did.

I still dream of that day where I can finally be with him, even just as friends. It's hard to keep on fighting when the one you're fighting for has already given up. I would give everything for us to workout, I will hold his hand as tight as it is just to not let him slip away. But he let go of my hand before I could hold it tighter.

I feel like a broken glass. I know I will be whole again in the future. But the cracks will always remind me of the day he said goodbye.

Hurting,

Frosty's Love

How Do You Know That You've Found The One?

To be honest, I don't know either. Seriously. Even after 40 years of being happily married, some people still go in the divorce lane. I have read somewhere that we should stop looking for the right one, instead we should focus on being the right one :) it makes sense though coz we're too busy looking for the one that we forget to love ourselves and be the right one instead. It's the same as be the girl your boyfriend can't live without.

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I know, majority of us girls have lots of issues in life. We're insecure of almost everything! Beauty, wealth, body and everything else. Guess what, somewhere and some time in our lives, there will always be that man, or men, who will love what you hate about yourself. Big butt, freckled face, big boobs, big tummy, big nose, fat legs, and all other things you're insecure about. As the saying goes, beauty is in the eye of the beholder :)

But really, beauty is not the reason why someone will you. Except ofcourse for those whose basis for love is how attractive their partner should be. This is dangerous because all of us will age, we get old. If your type of love is like this, you will never end up with just one partner. You will constantly look for attractive people. Beauty fades, but personality lasts :)