I titled this post the ugly truth because I know the truth can be ugly and yes, sometimes, if not always, it hurts like hell. It's given already that because of today's norms and trends, it is harder to find love because lust is everywhere. Sex comes before relationships, babies come before marriage and oftentimes people think about lust as the basis for compatibility in finding a partner. Now I have to disagree with this. This is one of the reasons why a lot of people are left broken hearted and depressed.
We need to change the way we're thinking and setting our standards in having a relationship. Yeah sex is good, it might be very good that you think you're in love with that person but really, at the end of the day, when you are tired or you just want to enjoy a good company, do you still find yourself in love with that person or the sparks just stay in the bed?
Personally, I would choose a partner that I can talk with, I can enjoy with because really,not all people are as physically active or lustful in nature. I know a lot of people will disagree with this but that's the truth ya'll, sex is good while it lasts.
Love is when you take away the feeling, take away the lust, take away the good things and if you still fight and stay with that person, don't ever let them go. Problems will always be there, but it will all be worth it if it's love :)
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